A while ago, I was listening to Kellie Pickler’s ‘Best Days of Your life’ and there’s a line there that goes, ‘Ain’t Jealousy Funny?’ And it strikes me. So here I am writing everything that runs in my head.
Is Jealousy really funny at all? What do you think? Jealousy is the common issue why disagreements, disputes and conflicts happen between lovers and sometimes if too much, it can cause a break-up. So, it’s funny?
Maybe, at some point it is. When the new girlfriend or boyfriend of your ex is very much jealous about you, even you don’t do anything at all, it can boost your confidence and self-esteem. And at the back of your head, you are laughing out loud because you feel more beautiful/ handsomer and greater than your ex’s new one.
If that’s the case, jealousy is really funny. LOL! But when it is the other way around, it is not. It becomes a serious thing. Yes, a little jealousy is healthy because it’s part of the relationship and it is one proof that the one you love is afraid to lose you… but when it gets more severe, it’s no more jealousy, it’s possessiveness.